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Jo Pitfield

Scarlet Hotel, Cornwall

Five easy ways to prioritise your self-care in 2020

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Putting self-care at the top of your agenda is about looking after yourself first.

We’ve put together five quick and easy ways to begin 2020 with you as the priority:

1. Give yourself a five minute recoup moment each morning, or evening, whichever works for you. Find your favourite song and do nothing but love it (or dance to it!).

2. Build on the habits you love by noticing the positives in why you’re doing them, i.e. I’m going to yoga because it makes me feel calm and strong.

3. Don’t do it all alone, connect with a friend and combine social connection with you time (we’re biased, but a spa day might be good for that!)

4. Add something just for you to your to-do list, at the top, just one thing – book a haircut or read 10 pages of your book for example.

5. Try something new to kick start prioritising yourself. Always fancied an art class? Want to get to know other people at book club? Go for it!

Looking for a luxurious spa day? Discover our spa days and special offers.

Proposing at the Scarlet


Proposing at the Scarlet

With our dramatic cliff top location, beautiful sea view bedrooms and hot tubs, the Scarlet has played host to a number of romantic and memorable proposals. Spring, as a season of hope and new beginnings, seems a fitting time to pop the question. And, if you’re thinking of proposing, you may be worrying about how best to ask in a thoughtful and tasteful way that doesn’t fall into being awkward or formulaic. How do you say the words ‘will you marry me?’ in a way that truly reflects who you are as a couple?

A few of our favourite Scarlet proposals…

  1. We once ran down to the beach and wrote ‘will you marry me?’ in the sand for one guest who wanted to propose to his girlfriend with Champagne sitting in one of our clifftop hot tubs.
  2. Another guest was having a treatment in the spa, so a couple of us grabbed the opportunity with her partner to create a path in rose petals and tea lights from the entrance of their room to a heart with the ring in the middle.
  3. One guest asked us to provide bubbles on the table at dinner, but we went the whole hog and presented the couple with a menu we’d printed out just for them. Halfway through this special menu was ‘marry me?’. That certainly made choosing their mains more interesting!

Being privy to, and helping out behind the scenes at, such an important moment in a couple’s life, is always a great privilege and something in which we delight.

If you’d like to feature the Scarlet into your proposal idea, please don’t hesitate to contact us on 01637 861 800 or by emailing – we can discuss any ideas you have and ways to make your proposal truly personal.

Top tips for a perfect proposal

Make it personal: Take some time to sit and think about what would be a meaningful proposal for your partner, and for you as a couple. What are some of your best memories together? What makes you different as a couple? What would your partner really appreciate? Maybe you love going for walks together, so pick one of your romantic walks. Or maybe you’re both avid music fans, so propose in the middle of a live performance during a favourite song.

Be spontaneous: Don’t be afraid of spontaneity. It’s okay to make your proposal when the mood takes and the timing feels right, rather than having everything planned, timed and precise. This could be anytime, during a wild and rainy clifftop walk, while loading the dishwasher, or at the end of an amazing meal at your favourite restaurant.

The words: The sentiments and words you use can be just as important as your actions. Take a little time to practice what you’d like to say – either verbally or in a written note. Add something personal such as the true reason you want to spend the rest of your life together.

Be creative: Add a little creativity or craft into the proposal and show how much you’ve been thinking about it. You could make your own engagement ring, write a poem, or spray paint a ‘Will You Marry Me?’ canvas you can keep.

Remember it’s the little things: The little things matter – try to incorporate small touches that mean something to you as a couple. Whether it is a keepsake from your first date or some of your favourite foods.

Lighting and ambiance: Add some romantic lighting. Lighting makes a huge difference to the atmosphere – if you can add some candles (even battery-operated ones if you’re outdoors), twinkling fairy lights, lanterns, or pick an evening with a perfect sunset, or a clear starry night – you can really add to the romance.

And finally…choosing the ring: The ring can be a really difficult to decision to make – to choose something your partner is to wear for the rest of their life. If you’re not confident, you can go for an inexpensive, token ring – maybe hand carved in wood, or a simple jelly sweet if your loved one has a sweet tooth – and then you’ve got the fun of ring shopping together. Alternatively, try thinking outside the box – a vintage engagement ring, maybe a family heirloom, something designed an crafted by a local artist or jewellery maker, which could incorporate a family stone, or even a beach find.

If you’d like to feature the Scarlet into your proposal idea, please don’t hesitate to contact us on 01637 861 800 or by emailing – we can discuss any ideas you have and ways to make your proposal truly personal.

A grown ups guide to winter blog

Top picks for December in Cornwall

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December in Cornwall is rugged, romantic and occasionally stormy, making it perfectly matched with open fires, red wine and plenty of coastal exploring. The fishing villages are putting on their best displays – bejeweled in Christmas lights that twinkle on the water.  Miles of sandy beaches stretch ahead with a few dog walkers as your only company and the Christmas markets are abuzz with the best local produce.

Contrary to what many people believe about Cornwall in winter, there is so much going on that’s not to be missed! We’ve put together our early picks of the key events that you’ll want to experience.

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The scarlet guide to palentines day

The Scarlet guide to Palentine’s Day


Palentine’s or Galentine’s day are quite simply a celebration of friendship, and some would say an antidote to the romantic pressure of February 14th .  This relatively new ‘holiday’ has stemmed from a recognition that just as Valentine’s celebrates romantic love between two people, Palentine’s celebrates friendship and dedicates a day of the year to the most important people in your life.

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